Tuesday, September 13, 2011

for all the moms of boys...

More than ten years ago I came across this poem written by Shirley Pope Waite.  It illustrates my heart's cry for my own boys.   

So I share it with the hope it is a comfort to other moms of boys -- they need us standing in the gap for them.

I’ll stand in the gap for my son.
I’ll stand ‘till the victory’s won.
This one thing I know that you love him so
and your work with my child is not done.

I’ll stand in the gap every day, and there I will fervently pray.
And Lord just one favor don’t let me waver if things get quite rough, which they may.

I’ll never give up on that boy.
Nor will you, for you promised him joy.
For I know it was true when he said  ”yes” to you,
Though the enemy seeks to destroy. 

I’ll not quit as I intercede, for you are his Savior, indeed!
Though it may take years, I give you my fears, as I trust every moment I plead.

And so in the gap I will stand, heeding your every command,
With help from above, I’ll unconditionally love,
and soon he will reach for your hand!        
            - Shirley Pope Waite


 

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Cabin Bound

The time I spend with my family and dear friends at the Cabin in northern Wisconsin has become my favorite time of the year!  Every August Steve & I pack the boys and "accessories" into our family vehicle and trek halfway across the northern part of the United States to the small town of Minong, Wisconsin -- population 524. 

Famous for being the headquarters of Jack Link's Beef Jerky, this welcoming community is situated an hour south of Lake Superior amongst sandy soil, birch trees and pines.  Its many lakes and scenic waterways are a draw for city dwellers looking to escape the hustle and bustle in exchange for fishing, boating, hunting and everything outdoors! 

What began as a friendship in high school has blossomed into a life-long bond.  Karin and her family have graciously welcomed our entire brood for the past 8 summers and we've watched as our children have grown -- the grocery bill increasing with each subsequent year.

Our mid-August family excursion has included the start of several annual traditions:  Minong Days, a trip (or two) to Hayward, kayaking down the Namekagon, the Midnight Chunky Dunk, early morning fishing, swimming at the sandbar, sailing, a picnic on Pancake Island, Haakon's birthday party, a wedding anniversary, boating on the Minong Flowage with a stop at Sand Island and several others.  We'll soon have to extend our stay beyond 10 days to accommodate all the fun!

Rendevous Supper!
We've made some new friends too!  The Boisen's introduced us to "Rendevous", a trading fair for mountain men during the early 1800's.  Two years ago, Jim & Judy replicated this event, staging trading tents, knife-pitching and finishing the evening off with a traditional barbeque. 
Rendevous











The Cabin on the lake

What began as the Gulbrandsen cabin-getaway has become their year-round family home.  Each year has added another element to the cabin compound.  This year Erik built a little cabin near the lakefront -- enabling us to enjoy the beautiful sunset bug-free from this in haven in the woods. 









Another highlight to my week is a visit from Karin's mom, Ardis and sisters, Kristin & Jennifer - who have become like family to me!  I even think we have begun to look alike - I fit right in, don't I?

The Northwoods Girls
My boys (Steve included!) anticipate our Cabin trip each year.  Dinner conversation includes Cabin talk for weeks before we leave.  The waders made the trip with us this year but were never used -- there was less time for fishing but more time spent sailing and being just plain silly on the lake!
Dan & Matt became expert sailors
Jake in his pool-boat
Jake taking the plunge
We visited family in Ashland - thanks JoAnn, Todd & kids!  Swimming in Lake Superior was refreshing and fun watching the kids enjoy the high dive.  
The three guys - forced smiles, of course!
Amazingly amidst all the family activity, Karin and I were able to spend together as friends too -- riding the gator to her weekly bible study at The River Church (its a WONDERFUL place!) and exploring project options at the local yarn shop. 
 

We had a wonderful trip -- it came to an end way too quickly.  September is here, school has begun and daily routines are back in full-swing.  I treasure the memories made this year as well as in years past and am already looking forward to more in years to come!

So - what's the point in my writing about my trip?  Perhaps not much -- other than I've learned to treasure the dear friends who have joined my life's journey.  Some have been family -- siblings, cousins and in-laws, and others have been friends....but grafted in as family along the way. 

God created a wonderful gift when He placed us together in community and I am thankful for those in mine.